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[IMAGE: A woman wearing a strapless wedding dress][TEXT: It sounds silly, the hardest part of coming to terms with my aromanticism was accepting that I will never have a wedding.I wish I could have a platonic marriage.]I’ve been planning my wedding since I was a little girl, and it hurts to think that I will never get to experience it, that I will never get to put any of these plans in motion. I can’t even use my plans for any of my friends weddings, because a lot of it was symbolic and wouldn’t really apply to anyone else.Maybe it will get easier someday, but right now it makes me want to cry.

[IMAGE: A woman wearing a strapless wedding dress]
[TEXT: It sounds silly, the hardest part of coming to terms with my aromanticism was accepting that I will never have a wedding.
I wish I could have a platonic marriage.]

I’ve been planning my wedding since I was a little girl, and it hurts to think that I will never get to experience it, that I will never get to put any of these plans in motion. I can’t even use my plans for any of my friends weddings, because a lot of it was symbolic and wouldn’t really apply to anyone else.

Maybe it will get easier someday, but right now it makes me want to cry.

  1. singinglupines reblogged this from fyeahqueerplatoniczucchinis and added:
    This is me exactly. I’ve been planning a wedding forever and do not want to let go of that dream. I’m hoping to find a...
  2. ninasafiri reblogged this from fyeahqueerplatoniczucchinis and added:
    I would totes have a platonic marriage! Where else am I going to get all my kitchen tools (*cough* KitchenAid mixer...
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    I don’t really get any of the “_____ relationship wedding!” stuff personally… I just really really want a huge day-long...
  5. reeses-and-redbull reblogged this from aromanticaardvark and added:
    ^ This, yo. Not all couples/relationships/whatever are founded on romantic love.
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  7. aromanticaardvark reblogged this from acesecrets and added:
    wedding, anon! I’m aromantic...queerplatonic/platonic wedding as well. To
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  9. squareroot-1 reblogged this from acesecrets and added:
    marriage! People have...having platonic marriages for generations. If you find
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    This - it can simply be a ceremony to demonstrate your intentions to spend the rest of your lives with one another. Or...
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    had this really important idea...royal purple dress,...I...
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    wedding! It doesn’t have...be legally binding. If you find
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