Ace Secrets, I feel like a bad ace because while it is obviously not the reason, being abused sexually was one of the things that made me realize I was asexual. Obviously I can tell this to nobody because they immediatly start saying my asexuality is just my way to cope with the trauma. It isn’t, but I still feel terrible.

I feel like a bad ace because while it is obviously not the reason, being abused sexually was one of the things that made me realize I was asexual. Obviously I can tell this to nobody because they immediatly start saying my asexuality is just my way to cope with the trauma. It isn't, but I still feel terrible.

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You’re not a bad ace and you have no reason to feel terrible. We all come to realize our sexuality in different ways - the way in which you came to realize you were asexual is just as valid as anyone elses.

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