Ace Secrets, I’ve been looking for a name for my sexual identity and I was wondering what you’re thoughts are (I’m new to the asexual spectrum so I’m still learning about it) Right now the titles I use are “Lesbian (homo-romantic, gray A). Emotionally and physically I’m attracted to female identified people (regardless of genitalia) I have very little sexual desire (I can “scratch” any “itch” that I might have), but I’d be more than happy to fulfill any sexual needs that my partner might have.

I've been looking for a name for my sexual identity and I was wondering what you're thoughts are (I'm new to the asexual spectrum so I'm still learning about it) Right now the titles I use are "Lesbian (homo-romantic, gray A). Emotionally and physically I'm attracted to female identified people (regardless of genitalia) I have very little sexual desire (I can "scratch" any "itch" that I might have), but I'd be more than happy to fulfill any sexual needs that my partner might have.

transgalacticwanderer

Romantic-wise if you are romantically attracted to the same gender then that’d make you homoromantic, as you say. (You could also consider the term panromantic - since your romantic attraction isn’t dependent on genitalia and so a little broader than being strictly homoromantic).

Asexuality is all about not finding others sexually attractive and is unrelated to sex drive/arousal and masturbation - so experiencing any of those things doesn’t mean you aren’t asexual (also not experiencing them doesn’t mean you aren’t ace either!).

Grey-as experience sexual attraction infrequently and so still regard themselves as on the asexual spectrum.

Some asexuals are comfortable to have sex (etc) with their partners, and even enjoy giving/receiving, whereas others are indifferent or completely uncomfortable and repulsed.

Hope that helps!