February 2012
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Currently moving house so answering Asks may take...
Anonymous asked: Dear, there is nothing wrong with being a demi-sexual. People on this site just want to think that only the homo-sexual's matter, which even though I like girls and I myself am a girl, it sickens me when people only stand up for us. Demi-sexual's like yourself matter just as much as any homosexual.
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I feel legitimately unsafe after seeing how many people hate demisexuality as an orientation.
I’m a 25-year-old guy who’s been ID’ing this way for 5 years. I was completely asexual growing up. I’ve had people in real life tell me that there was something wrong with me because I never fancied celebrities or dated - or even had crushes on - anyone at school. I’ve been...
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Anonymous asked: I've been seeing the term "zucchini" on here a lot lately. What exactly does it mean? I feel I've missed the memo.
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Being a role model is hard.
I’m out as ace, and open about it, but I don’t feel like it’s a relevant part of who I am in most cases. It’s nobody’s business whether or not I feel sexual attraction/desire if I’m not currently seeing (or interested in seeing) anybody - which I’m not. So I’m probably not as open about being ace as I could (should?) be, but I really do think that my...
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The uncertainty if you really are or not.
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killedbyshoes asked: Okay so I've submitted the last Ace Positive and because someone's asked I just wanted to make it clear: "national" means "the biggest Slovenian LGBT organisation". I'm sorry if you were expecting something bigger, however, I thought people might want to know exciting things are also happening outside the English-speaking community. Cheers!
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Anonymous asked: Yeah, but saying that a person is panromantic because they're romantically attracted to women regardless of gender, instead of being homormantic, is implying that trans women aren't really women.
Anonymous asked: I feel like a bad ace because while it is obviously not the reason, being abused sexually was one of the things that made me realize I was asexual. Obviously I can tell this to nobody because they immediatly start saying my asexuality is just my way to cope with the trauma. It isn't, but I still feel terrible.
transgalacticwanderer asked: I've been looking for a name for my sexual identity and I was wondering what you're thoughts are (I'm new to the asexual spectrum so I'm still learning about it) Right now the titles I use are "Lesbian (homo-romantic, gray A). Emotionally and physically I'm attracted to female identified people (regardless of genitalia) I have very little sexual desire (I can...
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Anonymous asked: The only time I feel bad about my asexuality is when my otherwise very accepting friend tells me she's afraid I might be refusing opportunities. Not only am I a repulsed asexual (0 chance of ever being ok with sex for me) but I'm also very aromantic and hate being touched so no hand holding or hugging for me. Am I strange even from an ace perspective? Is there anyone else out there like...
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On Asexual Representation and the LGBTQ Community
So, there have been several arguments between the ace and LGBTQ community recently about representation of asexuals in the media and in society. I really don’t understand why it has to be an argument.
Apparently, some LGBTQ people are opposed to asexuals speaking out about misrepresentation, or lack of representation.
Their main argument is that when complaining about representation (or...
Anonymous asked: Does the black ring have to be a plain black ring, or can it have some kind of design on it? I'm trying to remember if I've seen any plain black ones on sale near me and I can't - and buying it online with an account someone else sees is inconvenient.
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My mother thinks I’m bi and ‘not interested’ in people I don’t know. No one else in my family knows I’m not straight, and if I brought home a girl (or, hell, a non-white guy) I’d probably be disowned by everyone but my mother. I have a secret crush on a girl who is sexual, taken, and lives halfway across the country. I’m demi/panromantic. Only one person...
Anonymous asked: Hi there! I've recently started a blog for lithromantics. A lithromantic person naturally experiences romantic love without a desire for reciprocation. I was hoping you could share the link with your followers. The blog is lithromantic*tumblr*com. Thank you! :)
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